Explore how the desire for approval, control, comfort, or power affects your choices. Identify where it’s causing problems and make a plan to respond differently.
Which root idol is loudest right now?
Pick one or two. These often travel in pairs — approval and control, comfort and power. Trust your gut.
0 of 1–2 selected
How do you know it's ruling you?
For each idol you named, write the proof — specific moments, words you've said, and the things you felt you had to have because of it. This is where you make the invisible visible.
Count the trades you made
Every time you gave in, you traded something away for something you wanted. Write two or three of those trades from the last month, one per row. Then say whether they were worth it.
Look back over what you wrote
Am I willing to keep paying this?
Pre-Decisions
A pre-decision is a fence built in calm time, before the idol gets to vote in the moment. Pick one or two that fit your life.
Tailoring pre-decisions to what you wrote…
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Pre-decisions — pick one or two
The Workroom
"The deepest issues of human struggle are not issues of pain and suffering, but the issue of worship — because what rules our hearts will control the way we respond to both suffering and blessing."
"Suffering is one of God's most useful workrooms. It can help us move out of the confines of our self-absorbed world into the grandeur of a world where God is central."
What you've named is not a problem to fix. It is the workroom — the place God is using to expose what you've been worshiping, so that He can hand you something better.
Reading what you wrote with care…
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