A personalized parenting plan for the conflict you're in.
Step 1 of 2 — the same for everyone
A handful of standard questions to get oriented. The next round will be written specifically for you, based on what you say here.
How old is the child this is mostly about?
Age changes everything — the same behavior means something different at three than at thirteen.
What's the conflict mostly about?
In your own words — what actually happens? What was the most recent blow-up?
Don't tidy it up. The more honest and specific you are, the better every question and recommendation gets.
How often does this come up?
What happens right before it kicks off? What's the last thing you say before it falls apart?
The trigger — and your real default line, word for word if you can — tells us as much as the blow-up itself.
And what does your child tend to do? How does it usually end?
What have you already tried?
Do you want this plan to include Christian-based ideas?
If yes, we'll include a short Scripture-and-prayer reflection for you as the parent. If not, we'll use a practical, calm-your-own-head reframe in its place.
Anything else — including how your child would tell it? (optional)
Free, private, nothing saved. Takes about 2 minutes.
Pick your child's age and the main flashpoint, and describe what happens, to continue.
A quick note helps me make the next visit better.